Yet another list for 20-somethings/Myself

I love writing lists, and this is a reminder to myself mainly about life as a twentysomething. There are so many lists out there for twenty somethings, it can honestly be over welming reading a lot of them and pretty much agreeing with errythang it says. And obviously I'm not an "expert" on twenty somethings, I'm just living it now, and realizing so many things. This list is not just for the twenty somethings out there, but its also to remind myself of the things I'm dealing with and trying to manage. Because no, I don't have to have everything figured out right now, its just not possible to know everything. But Yes, I am young and I have dreams, and I will YOLO.. responsibly. ;) (Yes I had to write YOLO).

rtt: being there

Friendships are truly tested when your friend goes through a traumatic or sad event in their life, whether its a break up or loss of a loved one.

And the truth is, its hard when your friend goes through something that you haven't experienced yet, and can't relate to or even imagine happening to you. It changes people. But that doesn't mean you should change they way you treat them, or act around them, or avoid them all together, and this is especially important when you don't know what you can do for them.

So how can you be there? Like really be there for them?